Russian women. Something you might want to understand about them
- Posted by: Enjoy Russian
- Category: Interesting Russia
Russian girls are slightly different
Most of the Russian women think that their weakness is their strength (Их сила в слабости), which means that they really like to be weak and they want their man to be strong, to take care of them, to protect them. This position is quite different from the modern feminist ideas. Well, we don’t understand what’s bad about being weaker. We like the feeling of being protected by a strong man. The Russian word for “to get married” (for women) is ВЫЙТИ ЗАМУЖ, which literally means “to go behind husband’s back”. And it doesn’t mean that a man is superior to a woman, no. It means that a woman feels like she is behind a brick wall when she is married, and this brick wall is a protection and safeness, it’s the feeling of being a woman itself.
What do Russian women want?
Most of them want a family. And their family will always be the most important thing for them in their life. Russian women really want a husband and many children, their biggest happiness is to keep the family hearth, to take care about their husband and kids.
Of course we hope our husband to be kind and generous, and a good father. But the problem is that it’s not that easy to find nowadays. And the whole tragedy of Russian women is that they must be strong to bring up their children without a husband, but in their soul they always dream to find a man with whom they can be weak again.
A few advice about how to approach a Russian girl
Well first, you must be a gentleman. Open doors for her, let her go first, help her hold her jacket when she is putting it on, help her carry heavy stuff is she is carring some. These are small things that show that you care about her, and that are really important for most of the Russian girls.
If you take her to a restaurant you should pay for her. It’s not the matter of money. Again, it’s just important for a girl to feel that you’re the one who cares about her.
Listen to her. If she tells you about some stupid things still listen to her. It’s important for every woman, not only Russian;)
If she is in trouble, don’t stand aside, try to help. Try to be the one she can trust and rely on.
Be a “prince on a white horse”. But the real one!;)
P.S. The content of the article is a personal opinion of the author and is not the official position of the school:) And it is definitely not about all the women in Russia, but just about the majority, again, from the author’s point of view.